Monday, June 7, 2010

There Was a Child Went Forth



There Was a Child Went Forth


There was a child went forth every day;
And the first object she look’d upon, that object she became;
And that object became part of her for the day, or a certain part of
That day, or for many years, or stretching cycles of years.


Snapped peas from the garden became part of her,
And piano lessons, and the backyard swing, and sleeping on Grandma’s hill on the
Fourth of July, and kisses behind the ear,
Walking to cousins houses, and laying by the fireplace after sledding on the snow,
And playing tag around the whole cul-de-sac, fun-machine,
And homemade chocolate chip cookies, don’t spill the beans, tying shoes, and uncles
Living in the basement downstairs – all became part of this child.


And her parents, loving and kind,
Their hard work ethic and service became part of her.
Their example rendered, in this child, a strong testimony of right.
Her mother’s humor and comfort and support
And her father’s unwavering steadiness,
The knowledge of the absence of green in her hair,
And the peace of having unrelenting love all became part of this child.


Then S. Elementary became part of this child
And walking to school with sister, and creative writing about toothpaste,
Reading Franklin and Berenstein Bears to mom, and running on the big hill at recess.
Then moving to Texas, and attending B. Elementary became part of this child
And spelling tests and bees, and riding bikes to school, and reading Harry Potter and
The Borrowers at night, and trips to the emergency room and orthodontist,
Long bike rides with dad and fifth grade strings became part of this child.


Then K. Intermediate School became part of this child, new friends, honors classes,
Private viola lessons now and then, UIL for orchestra, and a fun trip to Galveston.
Volleyball and swim team, athletic class, riding the hot stinky smelly bus to and from
School, chain reactions in Mrs. E.’s class, a new language of spanish, and lots
of maps continued to mold this child.
Summer swim team became part of her, every Saturday at a swim meet, and babysitting
jobs every weekend.
Spending time with Heather at every spare moment, and a new found love of Target
became a part of this child.


Then came early morning seminary, and high school that followed became part of this
child.
Learning how to deal with different people, discovering the snooze button, and life long
lessons discovered before the sun rose.
Dance classes, hours and hours of orchestra –enough to last a lifetime, but her love of the
viola held deep, AP classes, cat dissections, never being tardy, new friends, and
old friends moving, pointless projects, new information, eye opening experiences,
PALS, and discoveries that would change her outlook forever.
After school came work, first at N. Books by K., then moved to T.I.T.P. by R.,
three to eight and weekends.


Getting a driver’s license and deeming the 92 Honda Accord, "Curbie," flooding, toilet
paper, curbs, eggs, car paint, no air conditioning, and two blown out tires.
Family trips to Disney, camping weekends, EFY’s, conquering Enchanted Rock,
fireworks in Wyoming, Youth Conferences, Jack Black, Princess and the Frog,
American Idol.


Carefree childhood silently left this child and was replaced by going green, ozone
depletion, and demolition of the rain forests.
There was a constant war after one heart shattering September day, followed by unity,
Various service projects of care packages, letters, and support.
Soon ipods, itouches, iphones, laptops, gps’, internet phones, wifi, digital cameras,
kindles, blue-ray dvds, high definition tv, and wireless computers, evolved
around this child from a time when a camera phone was rare.


These became a part of that child who went forth every day, and who now goes, and will
always go forth every day.


-C. Merrell,
class of 2010
C. wrote that poem for her Senior Project. It still makes me cry every time I read it, but it also makes me realize how every choice a parent makes affects the child. Many of the things she mentions were things I had forgotten, but they still shaped who she is today.
Ya, I'm proud of her. :)

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Family Fun (Surprise) Day

C and I wanted to surprise the kids!!
And we actually pulled it off!
For the last week or so we've been telling the kids that we had big plans for Memorial Day--and to not plan anything else. They hounded us with questions-- Do I need to shave my legs? Will we need sunscreen? How far away is it? --but we did not crack!
J even threatened with--"Mom, you know how you don't like surprises? Well I don't either and if you don't tell me what we're doing, I'm going to throw you a surprise party on your birthday!" Ya, that one really scared me. Silly kids.
Monday morning we woke them up at 7 am. We told them to put on comfortable clothes and walking shoes. Once we got in the car, we gave them the first clue:
B figured it out first! and away to IHop we went for breakfast!
When breakfast was over, I pulled out the clues for the next destination. I thought this one would take a little longer, but soon J had it figured out and away we went to the H. Zoo. We used to go to the zoo quite frequently, but the kids started getting older and the price started getting higher. (When we first moved here, it was 50 cents to get in, now it's $11.00.) It was sad but true to realize that J and B don't ever remember going to the zoo before!
Here are a few more pictures of the day: B laying in the tunnel that goes through an aquarium.
Month-old Baylor peeing. (what??)

This mandrill loved the camera.

After the zoo, we went out to the car and ate a picnic lunch and the kids were handed one more clue. It meant Iron Man 2. We were all so tired but loved sitting in the air conditioning for a couple of hours. We were home in time for dinner.

It was a great day and I loved how we surprised the kids!

Thursday, May 20, 2010

A Thousand Memories



A picture's worth a thousand memories.

A few months ago I was working on a memory book for my sister in honor of her 40th birthday. One of my brother's emailed this pic to me. I had never seen it before. He said it was of our one-day trip to Yosemite. We went so we could say we'd been there.

There's 7 kids peeking out of the back there so we know Jonny was the baby. We have coats and jackets on so it wasn't summer yet. We have the station wagon so we know it was during our Manteca days. It was before Dad died, but not too long before--I'm guessing within 6 months.

We had a large family, we had family outings, we were comfortable being close with each other. We had a camera, we had coats, food, clothes, gas for the car, pacifiers. I remember that coat, I remember that car. I remember that trip.

We had love. And now we have memories. I thought it was amazing how one picture--not even an award winning picture--can say so much.

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Mental Health Day

(tired mother's day flowers)
A couple of weeks ago, we told C that she could pick a day to take off. She's a senior, works hard, has been so busy and was getting burnt out. Just the notion of a day off picked up her spirits and she chose a day that I would have off work and we could spend the day together. She was able to miss school but would have to go to work later that afternoon.

Finally the day came. We decided to go to the new outlet mall that probably isn't that new anymore but we hadn't been there yet so it was new to us. I drove her seminary route for her and let her sleep in and then got the other kids to school. We printed off a map of the stores and talked about which ones we HAD to visit and then we hit the road.

We had so much fun. Just the two of us. The weather was perfect and because it was a regular day, the stores weren't that crowded. We shopped and bought things we just had to have. C found the perfect pair of Converse to wear with her prom dress. I bought a pair, too, just because. I found a new dress that I love and a new purse, too. C loved visiting Aeropostale and her other favorites. She found some pants that she liked and were also dress-code appropriate for BYU-Idaho. We had Chinese for lunch and Smoothie King for fun.

When we were finally on our way home, I couldn't help but feel so happy and very content. I had been able to spend some awesome time, one on one with a daughter that will be out and on her own in a few short months. We had good conversation and enjoyed each others company. It was very renewing and relaxing.

Even though it was initially supposed to be a mental health day for C, it turned out to be exactly what I needed. And I didn't even know it until it was over. I think I had been just as burnt out with my schedule and demands as C had been. It's amazing what getting out of the normal routine can do for you. We had a perfect day.

Thanks C., Love you!

Sunday, May 2, 2010

What Were We Thinking???

We did not wake up Saturday and know that we were going to have a new puppy by the end of the day. We did not.

We already have a dog and a hedgehog. Over the years, we've had a snake, many birds, a cat, frogs, hermit crabs, and many fish. We are, obviously, pet people, so we knew what we were getting into. And did we want to get into that again? The house training, the "stop chewing on that" training, the "sit" and "heel" training. What about fleas? When we held that puppy in our arms did any of that matter?


Let me try to explain how such a thing might just sneak up on you--About a year ago, I told B that when his older brother, J, left for college, he could get his very own puppy. The reasoning was that he would have 4 years at home without any sibilngs. It sounded reasonable and it still does because it's about 5 years away.


Then, J started asking for a puppy. (He sometimes gets a one-track mind and is very focused on whatever ambition is his focus.) He did research and came up with this plan--The dog for us was a miniature poodle, smaller than a standard and larger than a toy. This dog would not shed, and would not make us sneeze (that's why our Australian Shepherd is an outside dog). J would train it and since poodles are the second smartest breed, that part would be easy. AND--He would help pay for it.


We thought his plan was very nice and well-thought out. Then he started asking for the puppy now. So he could have some time with it before college started (in 5 years). He's very good at planting seeds. We have always answered the kids queries with "It sounds nice," "Maybe one day," or the famous, "We'll see."


Then yesterday. It began like any normal Saturday. Some of the kids had fundraising projects for summer camps, some of us had errands to run, and the yard needed a mow and trim. Then I ran an errand right out on the main street right by our house. And there it was on the side of the road. An SUV with the back open and a sign "Mini Poodles for Sale." Just like that, the opportunity had dropped in our laps. We drove by a couple of times, held spontaneous family councils to negotiate and list pros and cons.


You kind of know that when there's that much conversation about it, it's bound to happen. As parents, we couldn't change the subject or get around it any longer. We drove by and stopped and picked one out. A cute little boy that the kids named "Ray." They named him after the heroic lightening bug in "Princess and the Frog."


We love our new li'l Ray and last night we celebrated with a pile of Beignets that C made. Yum!



Paula Deen's French Quarter Beignets

Ingredients
1 1/2 cups lukewarm
water
1/2 cup granulated sugar
1 envelope active dry yeast
2 eggs, slightly beaten
1 1/4 teaspoons salt
1 cup evaporated
milk
7 cups
bread flour
1/4 cup shortening
Nonstick spray
Oil, for deep-frying
3 cups confectioners' sugar


Directions
Mix water, sugar, and yeast in a large bowl and let sit for 10 minutes.


In another bowl, beat the eggs, salt and evaporated milk together. Mix egg mixture to the yeast mixture. In a separate bowl, measure out the bread flour. Add 3 cups of the flour to the yeast mixture and stir to combine. Add the shortening and continue to stir while adding the remaining flour. Remove dough from the bowl, place onto a lightly floured surface and knead until smooth.


Spray a large bowl with nonstick spray. Put dough into the bowl and cover with plastic wrap or a towel. Let rise in a warm place for at least 2 hours. (we put it in a warm oven for 20 minutes)

Preheat oil in a deep-fryer to 350 degrees F.

Add the confectioners' sugar to a paper or plastic bag and set aside.

Roll the dough out to about 1/4-inch thickness and cut into 1-inch squares. Deep-fry, flipping constantly, until they become a golden color. After beignets are fried, drain them for a few seconds on paper towels, and then toss them into the bag of confectioners' sugar. Hold bag closed and shake to coat evenly.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Anticipation

baby pomegranates

baby corn

baby zukes

baby watermelon

baby tomatoes

baby lemon
It's all so hopeful right now. But soon, the bugs will come and have a feast. Then the rain will rain too hard and be too much. Then the sun will come and burn up leaves with its heat. And let's not forget the birds. They love tomatoes and lemons. I wonder if they like pomegranates. But, for now, just for today, I can dream that we will have food right out of the garden.
Delicious, wholesome, nutritious, fresh. It could happen.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Cakes and Badges (and bragging)

WARNING: This post contains stuff about Scouts. And there's some bragging, too.

We went to a Court of Honor last night. (Bragging coming up) My 13 year-old earned 11 Merit Badges in 3 months. He also earned the "Overachiever of the Year" award. Looks like I'm going to be busy getting them all on his sash. I still hadn't sewn on the two he earned at the last Court of Honor. He's busy working on his Eagle and hopes to have that done before he turns 14. Whose kid is this anyway? (more bragging coming up) Did I also mention that he plays the piano, trumpet, football, track, and has all AP classes? (OK, that was a little much, but sometimes it feels good to brag. I'm proud of him!)

In Cub Scouts we had our cake auction a few weeks ago. This is to earn money for Day Camp. Look at this cake pan. What other state has a cake pan shaped like them? Big Texas pride down here.
We made a Triple Chocolate Cake and since I'm not a big fan of red and blue-colored frosting, we went with homemade buttercream frosting. Nothing better. :) We used regular buttercream for the white parts, added a few tablespoons of cocoa for the red parts, and added a few more tablespoons of cocoa for the blue parts. I was going to put some dark cocoa in, but I had run out, which is kind of unheard of around here. B even helped decorate it a little bit.


We named it "Deep in the Heart of Chocolate." (More bragging coming up here) It brought in the most money.

K, I'll be quiet now. I'm done bragging for a while.