Saturday, September 27, 2008

I Get By With a Little Help From My Friends

I'm back. :)
Ike came and went 2 weeks ago today. We are fine, the house is fine, we didn't lose any trees--only some big limbs and the bird feeder. The power came back on last night about 6 pm. That's the focus of this blog.
Living without power is nothing. Easy. So, why was I crying when I pulled into the parking lot of the laundromat and couldn't find a parking place? Why did I cry again when friends took my laundry for me?
We were prepared. Always have been. We have a grill outside, a Coleman stove, lots of propane, flashlights, batteries, a galvanized steel tub for open fires outside, a turkey fryer that runs off of propane, water. We have clean water! The water wasn't interrupted at all but we were under boiling advisement for about 3 days while it was checked. We also have 4 55-gallon barrels of water in the garage and we had 7 cases of bottled water. Also, all of our cars tanks were full and we didn't have a generator that we needed to buy gas for.

We have food storage! I've been working on our 3-month supply of easy to cook food, mostly canned. We really were prepared. The only line we ever had to stand in was for ice. After a couple of days we couldn't keep our fridge cold enough any longer and had to throw out a lot of food and transfer the rest to coolers. Every day we went in search of ice. 5 bags a day. Our new HEB was open soon after the storm and usually got 2 trucks of ice in a day. The arrival times varied so sometimes we had to wait on the shipment before we could buy our treasured 5 bags. We kept 3 coolers cold and put the rest in the outside freezer. After about a week, the freezer was ready for a clean out. Everything was thawed and after eating a lot out of it, we couldn't buy enough ice every day to keep it full. So, one cooler went to the freezer items and the freezer was cleaned out. We gave one turkey away and fried the other. We had to throw out a roast, some chicken, a couple pounds of hamburger, some ribs, and stewmeat. The day before the storm, I cooked about 5 lbs. of chicken and shredded it and stuck it in the freezer so we could easily add it to meals to eat after the storm. We had plenty of bread in the freezer, which was a blessing, because the stores could not keep bread stocked.
The area is mostly back to normal now. We were the last block in our neighborhood to get power. The kids went back to school on Wednesday, I went back to work last Monday. Chris went back to work the Monday before. Life is getting back to where it was before but my emotions are not where they were before. After living on the edge of civilization for 2 weeks with only a newspaper and radio for news (the radio got old really fast--too much negativity), I feel like life will never exactly be the same again. On Wednesday morning before school started, the elementary school had a prayer for the families in the neighborhood and for the kids starting back to school. We all met at the flag pole and participated in a non-denominational prayer. Tears came to my eyes as I stood with my friends and neighbors and prayed with them. Only in Houston does the PTO think of praying with its students and actually does it. And no one will be suing.
During the first week after the storm, we had the kind of experience that has made lasting positive memories. The weather turned cool (very rare for this time of year here) and people went outside. Neighbors helped each other clean up yards, cut up trees, rake and bag debris. And then after dinner the kids played. Freeze tag, toilet tag, flashlight tag, missionary tag, and lots of games and running. One night Chris and I sat on the porch and watched 16 kids in our yard and spilling out into the other yards, playing some kind of tag. We enjoyed watching their antics and strategies. We're surprised no one ran into any of the trees because it gets dark without any street lights or lights of any kind. We roasted marshmallows together and made banana boats and s'mores. After the cleanup in the neighborhood was under control, the kids would head down to the elementary school every day to play kickball, touch football, and swing. It was an amazing week of good old-fashioned play.
As more people around us got their power back on (some as soon as the day after the storm), we had so many friends reach out to us and others who did not have power. We were offered help with laundry, dinner, and a place to cool off when the cool weather left us. These friends will always, always be dear to my heart. It really wasn't catastrophic to not have power for 2 weeks. We had all that we needed, thanks to our friends.
Pictures coming soon--Chris has the camera down in Galveston today where he's helping clean up. Mormon Helping Hands sure stays busy around here.
(I'm going to go vacuum now.)

10 comments:

Marnie said...

Glad that things are better and we can finally reach out through the internet. knowing what you have had to deal with makes me want to get my family more prepared. Oh how we love helping friends!!!!

Anonymous said...

Liz, Unbelievable. I can't imagine what it's been like for you guys, and the life lessons you've learned from all of this, but I can tell you - you inspire me. The things you think of (shredding chicken the day before a hurricane!) - you're amazing. I hope you realize it.

Also, your legacy is living on in Erin, just FYI. It was a real honor having her in our home for a couple days. We love her and she brings a bright spot with her. You must be so proud. She's doing great and we're going to have her over often.

You are amazing parents and people and it shows in everything you do. I would love to hear more about your "emotions never being the same again". I love to learn from life when things are that deep. It's truly the best way to learn.

I'm so glad to have you guys back. Glad everything is okay. Keep in touch.

Slim said...

Thanks for sharing your Ike experience. It was an interesting learning experience, huh? I think I learned the banana boat trick from you when we were in YW's together! By the way, the talk went GREAT! Thanks for everything!

Ari said...

Oh Liz...you guys have been in my prayers and thoughts daily. I am so glad that you guys are ok and that you where so prepared to be able to take care of your family. I would love to get some advise from you from your experience so that I can be more prepared for my family.
Thanks for being a great example and glad to hear that you are back to blogging.
Love you guys!

Science Teacher Mommy said...

Thanks for this post! I have heard so few details, including how people survived without power for two weeks. I'm going to take a lot of this to heart.

buttercupbugs said...

Dear Liz,

I came upon your blog by accident a few weeks ago. What a darling family you have. I have thought about you often the past few weeks, and prayed that all was well for you. I was sharing your blog with my Mom on Saturday night and read about what you had gone through. She was thrilled that you guys were doing ok and loved seeing your family. Even though we don't see you often you are in our thought and prayers.

Love to you, Judy (and Norma)

Chris and Dianne Clan said...

Liz, I loved reading your post! I was humbled and inspired by it...I really need to be more prpared. We just moved into a different house last weekend and my goal is to get our three month supply as soon as I can. It seemed like you knew just what to do, I never feel prepare enough! I'm glad you guys are okay!

Sharon said...

I had to laugh about your vacuum comment. That was the first thing I did after the power came back on (only 4 days after the storm). I'm glad you guys have power now and are able to get back to normal.

elasticwaistbandlady said...

We went close to 10 days without power. Aside from not having a way to cook, we weathered it pretty well. We ate from cans a lot. It got to the point that we were singing that Hall&Oates song, Maneater only we changed it to Caneater.

Ooooh, here she comes....she's a CANEATER!

My girls about died from happiness when I suggested going to the mall because they had power and we could get a hot meal. It's not often that I offer to take everyone to the mall voluntarily.

And yeah, we've lived here 12 years but we've never had so much time to sit around talking to our neighbors before.

Megan said...

Wow Liz! I'm so glad that you guys are safe & sound. I've got two empty 55 gallon barrels on the side of my house that I've bought and not filled up! They are filling up this week & that's final! We need to do more to be prepared. You are amazing & I'm so happy to be able to read up on your family. We sure love you guys & glad you are safe!